想着想着 变了

read tis somewhr，觉得蛮有意思的。

"Sometimes getting affected by people, at times we just chose to be affected by other people. For example, people say stupid at you once but you ended saying it to yourself many times by arguing about it in your heart."

我们是否也帮助了他人去強化他们的话呢？別人的一句無心快语，
可能是我们自己把它变为现实的。